Talking to Kids About Terrorism or Acts of War

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Kids ask lots of tough questions but questions about acts of terrorism or war are some of the hardest to answer. Especially when the news provides immediate and graphic details, parents wonder if they should protect their children from the grim reality, explore the topic, or share their personal beliefs. Professionals may wonder how much information to provide or how to help children if they are confused or troubled. And all adults must reconcile the dilemma of advocating non-violence while explaining terrorism and why nations maintain armies and engage in war. This guide helps answer some common questions and concerns parents and professionals have about talking to children about terrorism and war.

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It is very important to engage in an open discussion about children’s feelings, fears and worries related to war and terrorism. Avoiding discussion of scary feelings may be more damaging than talking about them.